Mary Kom Breaks Silence on Divorce and Personal Struggles
Legendary Indian boxer and Olympic medallist Mary Kom has officially confirmed her divorce from Onkholer Kom, her husband of over two decades. In a heartfelt legal statement released on Wednesday, Mary Kom addressed not just the end of a long-standing relationship, but also fiercely responded to allegations of an extramarital affair that had begun to circulate online.
For millions across the country, Mary Kom isn’t just a boxer—she’s a symbol of resilience, sacrifice, and integrity. Her personal life, often kept private, has now been thrust into the spotlight, and her response has only solidified her image as a woman of strength and grace.
A Marriage That Withstood Years of Challenges
Mary Kom and Onkholer Kom had been married since 2000 and shared a life marked by challenges, triumphs, and public scrutiny. As Mary rose to become India’s face in women’s boxing, Onkholer was often seen by her side, cheering her on. Together, they are parents to three sons, and their family was once regarded as a strong unit amidst the chaos of fame and responsibility.
However, in her statement, Mary Kom acknowledged that the marriage had been strained for several years. “We tried to hold on—for our children, for our family—but sometimes, letting go is an act of greater love than holding on,” she shared.
Responding to Affair Allegations with Dignity
What prompted Mary Kom’s public address was a viral social media post suggesting that an affair was the reason behind the separation. Without naming the source, she stated:
“The stories being circulated about my character are false, malicious, and deeply hurtful. My dignity and reputation are not up for casual discussion. I urge the public and media to show sensitivity.”
She added that the ongoing personal turmoil should not become fodder for gossip. “A woman’s value does not diminish because her marriage ends. I walk out of this relationship with peace, self-respect, and my children by my side.”
Support Pours In for the Boxing Icon
Fans, celebrities, fellow athletes, and women’s rights activists have flooded social media with messages of solidarity and respect for Mary Kom. The All India Mahila Sangh released a statement saying, “Mary Kom has shown the same courage in her personal life that she displayed in the ring. Women across India stand with her.”
Social media is full of comments praising her bravery:
“You inspired us in the boxing ring. Now you inspire us in life.”
“This is how dignity sounds. More power to you, champ.”
Focusing on Family and Future
Mary Kom emphasized that her priority remains her children and their well-being. “They are my world. I will continue to be both mother and father to them, as I have always strived to be a complete parent,” she noted.
She also hinted at returning to coaching and mentoring young boxers, saying that “even though my personal chapter is difficult right now, my love for the sport and the next generation of athletes will continue.”
A Message Larger Than Boxing
This story is not just about the divorce of a public figure, but about how women—especially those in the public eye—are constantly judged, questioned, and doubted in ways men rarely are. Mary Kom’s journey is a reminder that no woman should have to justify her dignity or choices.
Her statement ends on a hopeful note:
“I am not broken. I am evolving. And I’m still fighting—just in different ways.”
Conclusion
Mary Kom’s divorce might be seen by many as the end of a personal chapter, but her response to the ordeal shows it’s actually the beginning of a new story of strength, courage, and self-respect. As fans and citizens, it’s time we offer her the grace and privacy she deserves, while continuing to celebrate the fierce fighter she remains—in the ring and in life.
